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Reaching your full potential...yes you!

 I've always been fascinated by folks who take what seems to be nothing and turn it into, well... something.  I remember years ago reading the story of Sasson Jeans.  For those of you old enough to remember, their jingle may still reverberate in your head.  "Oooh la la. Sasson!"  Apparently their founder arrived in the United States in the 70's with approximately $51.00, a bag of skinny French jeans and not much else; no place to live; no job to speak of.  Without even a command for the English language, he set out to convince mega-retailer Bloomingdale's to carry his jeans.  The rest of the story is, as they say, history.  Sasson Jeans was big in its heyday.  Very big.  They graced some of the finest derrieres around. 

 How did someone who had what seemed to be no resources turn a bag of clothing and not much money into a fashion conglomerate?  The answer is what's driving my writing today.  You see, he did have something.  He believed in himself and he acted on that belief.  He knew that although the odds were stacked against him, he had come to this land of opportunity to build a future for himself.  Was it easy?  I dare say not.  But is anything of worth ever easy?  (I must disclose at this point that the empire this man built eventually crumbled.  There were many reasons, not the least of which was his newfound penchant for cocaine.  I'm not here discussing the perils of chemical addiction or shady bookkeeping just the drive to succeed, so please forgive my somewhat tarnished example.)

 I'm paraphrasing one of my favorite motivational speakers, Anthony Robbins, here.  He says that what people can achieve is monumental, but what they do achieve is usually disappointing.  Can you grasp the value of that statement?  You are capable of doing extraordinary things!  Yet we tend to get stuck in a rut and not move forward, repeating the same mistakes over and over again.  Why would we choose to not live up to our full potential?  I can go into the psychological reasons but let's keep it simple.  It's easy.  It takes too much effort to step outside our comfort zone and do the things we know will bring us success.  It's so much easier to get caught up in the day-to-day stuff that's going on and forget that one day down the road we'll wake up and realize we're nowhere near where we'd like and the years have passed us by.  Before you go stick your head in the oven at this realization, let me say a few other things. 

  • You have the power to dramatically change your future.  The power is within you. 
  • Write a mission statement.  What exactly are you trying to achieve with your life? 
  • Create a game plan for that mission.  It's no joke that failing to plan IS planning to fail.
  • Write your goals down.  For whatever reason, it works.  It's been proven that those who write their goals down are much more likely to achieve them than those who verbalize them.  Write your Long Term Goals as well as Short Term.  You should do this for every aspect of your life: personal; professional; spiritual; financial, etc.
  • Be specific.  Don't just say I want lots of money.  How much?  or I want to help people.  How?  or I want an expensive car.  Which one and when?
  • Use the Salami Method to achieve your goals and work on your projects.  Would you eat a whole salami in one bite?  Of course not.  You'd cut it up in little pieces and tackle it that way.  Identify all the steps necessary to achieve those goals and finish your projects.  List them as simple, doable tasks.  Getting your broker's license may seem like an astronomical feat, but it's really made up of many simple steps.  Start with the first one.
  • Keep a schedule.  Make sure you are regularly scheduling some of those tasks identified... and getting them done!
  • Revisit your mission statement, plan and goals regularly.  Even a pilot whose plane is on autopilot has to check regularly and make sure he is still on track.  If something needs adjusting, do it.
  • Find a mentor, if you will, or like-minded people who will raise you up.  Stay away from the nay-sayers who will drag you down.
  • Above all, believe that you can do it, for it's true.

Decide right now, this very moment, that you want more.  Then go for it.  As trite as it may sound, Nike was right when they said Just Do It. 

I know you can.

 

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Maggie Dokic, SFR is a licensed real estate broker in the state of Florida selling residential real estate in Miami, Palmetto Bay, Pinecrest, Coral Gables, Gables by the Sea, High Pines, the Redland and other select areas of SW Miami-Dade County.

Maggie has earned her SFR certification to be able to better serve the needs of her customers in today's non-traditional real estate market.  SFR is a Short Sale, Foreclosure Resource Specialist.  Designees have been trained to understand the highly specialized options available to Sellers facing short sales & foreclosures and Buyers looking to buy them.

For more information on our local real estate market, or to see or sell a home in Miami, Palmetto Bay, Pinecrest, Coral Gables or the Redland, visit my Miami Real Estate blog or contact me at Maggie (at) TheBlogThatAteMiami (dot) com.

The opinions expressed herein, are those of the author, and not necessarily of  Keller Williams Realty.

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Comments

 really? i can? :)) congrats on your featured post.. AGAIN. what do you have a formula over thre or something?
Posted by Nick M -Realtor®-Appraiser in West Palm- South Florida Real Estate Appraiser (Certified Residential Appraiser- West Palm Beach Real Estate) about 5 years ago
Excellent post Miss Maggie. Words to live by and I love the energy of this article. Congrats on the featured ! !
Posted by Bend Oregon REALTOR ® Kelli Fronabarger (Bend River Realty Inc.) about 5 years ago
Maggie, what a wonderful post!  Need I say more.
Posted by Ava Anderson"Selling in homes in Lilburn ,Grayson, Snellville & Gwinnett County" (Coldwell Banker RMR) about 5 years ago
Thanks for the words of encouragement. I really needed this right now! Congratulations on the featured post.
Posted by Michael Thompson about 5 years ago

Nick - good to see you AGAIN.  and yes siree, you can!  As if you didn't know that already....

Kelli - thank you.  I think I put my last bit of energy into it.  It's been a heck of a week.  I think I'll take the day off tomorrow :-)

Ava - thank you!  It was a pep talk to myself as much as it was for anyone else.  I've been needing to refocus lately.

Michael - I'm glad I could be of service then.  Truly.  The thought that I may help someone with my words brings me much joy.  Thank you!

Posted by Pinecrest | Palmetto Bay | Maggie Dokic, SFR (Keller Williams Realty Premier Properties) about 5 years ago

Very motivational.     I should pick up a Tony Robbins book again.    It sometimes does help to get focussed. 

 

Posted by Don Rich (West USA Realty) about 5 years ago
Don, I love Tony Robbins' approach.  I need to do the same thing myself and re-read his 30-day program.  He has a great way of motivating people.  I know someone who saw him live and says he (the viewer) walked on a bed of nails.  I doubt I'd want to do that, but it's nice to know they can get beyond their feelings and attempt things previously feared.
Posted by Pinecrest | Palmetto Bay | Maggie Dokic, SFR (Keller Williams Realty Premier Properties) about 5 years ago

Maggie, this is simply a wonderful post.

There are so many examples around us every of people who succeeded not because of instant talent, not because they had 'an in', not because of anything except their willingness to try.

Your statements are uplifting and I believe they will help many AR folks.

Thanks for sharing. :)

-B

Posted by Bryce Mohan (Bryce Mohan Photography) about 5 years ago
Bryce - thanks for stopping by and commenting.  I appreciate your kind words. 
Posted by Pinecrest | Palmetto Bay | Maggie Dokic, SFR (Keller Williams Realty Premier Properties) about 5 years ago
A+ POST!!!  Love this one, Maggie!  Who's cheerleading who here???  I think I need to print this one out and put it on the wall of my office.  And on my fridge.  And my bathroom mirror ...
Posted by Sarah Cooper (Real Estate Shows) about 5 years ago

Good morning Sarah!  I had half a mind to call you Dimples but thought better of it.  Some folks don't like being given nicknames.  I learned that yet again at the office the other day.  ::snicker::  Thanks for your kind words.  I am sure a level-headed young lady such as yourself is already well on her way to success.  Success leaves clues.  You're dropping clues.  :-)  Have an awesome Sunday!

Posted by Pinecrest | Palmetto Bay | Maggie Dokic, SFR (Keller Williams Realty Premier Properties) about 5 years ago
Congrats on the gold star.  It's well deserved for such a motivational post. 
Posted by Cynthia Sloop (Community Association Manager) about 5 years ago

Maggie,

Great job on this one - too!  I love motivational blogs and we all need them now and then for sure!  Especially in this market.  I love to visit my Goals list and I try to keep a diary as well that helps me to see where we were last year at the same time.  Thanks for sharing!

Lisa

Posted by Robert and Lisa Hammerstein, Realtors® Coldwell Banker, Pascack Valley Area (Bergen County New Jersey Homes For Sale 201-218-6802) about 5 years ago
Excellent - and oh so true!
Posted by Christina Ethridge (The North Idaho Dream Team powered by SKE Realty Group) about 5 years ago
Maggie - Great inspirational post!  Tony Robbins is one of my favorites as well.  His CDs get a lot of air time when I'm driving to California or Nevada!
Posted by Tony Marriott, Associate Broker, REALTOR® (Haven Express @ Keller Williams Arizona Realty) about 5 years ago

Cynthia - thanks.  I still don't know the rhyme or reason behind the featureds so I'm not taking credit for the star.  I did enjoy writing this though!

Lisa - thanks.  Keeping a journal takes great dedication.  I admire that!  I've started one on several occasions, only to give up 3-4 days into it.  Now that I've started blogging, perhaps I can call this my journal?  mebbe.

Christina - thank you.  I need to put that little carrot in front of me on my own.  Sometimes it's difficult being your own motivator.

Tony - one of his programs I have is so old that it's on cassette.  lol  It would get a lot more use if it were CD's.  I'm due for a Tony Robbins booster real soon.

Posted by Pinecrest | Palmetto Bay | Maggie Dokic, SFR (Keller Williams Realty Premier Properties) about 5 years ago

Maggie,

The beauty of keeping a journal is that, although it's best to do often, there are no rules.  Like a diary - you can make entries whenever you feel so inclined to do so. 

Lisa

Posted by Robert and Lisa Hammerstein, Realtors® Coldwell Banker, Pascack Valley Area (Bergen County New Jersey Homes For Sale 201-218-6802) about 5 years ago
Lisa, it's obvious that you treat yourself with kindness.  Good for you.  I often find myself getting that wet noodle out for another 30 lashes.  I am much gentler on others than I am on myself.
Posted by Pinecrest | Palmetto Bay | Maggie Dokic, SFR (Keller Williams Realty Premier Properties) about 5 years ago

Maggie,

Wonderful post. Congratulations!

 Remember the ad that said "a mind is a terrible thing to waste?

We all have so much untapped potential.

"As a man thinketh so he doeth!"

 

Ginger
Posted by Wilmington NC Real Estate & Relocation~ Ginger Sala (Wilkinson & Associates, Wilmington NC) about 5 years ago
Ginger, I'm so sorry I never came back here and acknowledged your comment.  How rude of me.  Please forgive me.  Thanks for the thoughtful comment and being so gracious :-)
Posted by Pinecrest | Palmetto Bay | Maggie Dokic, SFR (Keller Williams Realty Premier Properties) about 5 years ago
Note - Anthony Robbins AND Trump AND David Bach AND George Forman will be at the Expo in Broward June 8-10.  If you are a member of RAMB, they have secured us VIP tickets (normally $400!) for $99!  Most of our team is going!  Hope to see you there!
Posted by Janie Coffey, GRI - Miami Real Estate (One Sotheby's International Realty) about 5 years ago
Janie - girl you ROCK!  I am most certainly a member of both boards.  Thanks for the heads up!
Posted by Pinecrest | Palmetto Bay | Maggie Dokic, SFR (Keller Williams Realty Premier Properties) about 5 years ago

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