I received a message from a friend. "Hey, sorry I missed your call. I was showing a property. Dazzling. Dancing on the ceiling like Fred Astaire. I don't know, you have to bend over backwards for buyers nowadays. Anyway, call me." He made me laugh. Charley always makes me laugh.
But I started giving some thought to what he said. I have been doing some dancing on ceilings myself lately. Rescheduling appointments, especially with only 1 hour's notice, can be considered accommodating, no? Heck, I spent 3 hours with a new buyer, on my birthday, on a Sunday, who has never bothered to return my calls or emails. Hmmmph!
I think I'll sign up for Salsa classes instead. =)
Maggie Dokic, SFR is a licensed real estate broker in the state of Florida selling residential real estate in Miami, Palmetto Bay, Pinecrest, Coral Gables, Gables by the Sea, High Pines, the Redland and other select areas of SW Miami-Dade County.
Maggie has earned her SFR certification to be able to better serve the needs of her customers in today's non-traditional real estate market. SFR is a Short Sale, Foreclosure Resource Specialist. Designees have been trained to understand the highly specialized options available to Sellers facing short sales & foreclosures and Buyers looking to buy them.
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I'm done dancing on the ceiling. I think I'll pass those clients along and work with people that realize my time has worth as well.
Shame on me. I'll take a stand for the industry. :o)
Indeed it is frustrating! Unless you are in a seller's market, set your appointments and how long they take according to your schedule. Why are you dancing for them...it will just lead to frustration. Run your business don't let it run you ;)
Desperate times....desperate measures, Maggie! LOL.....no I don't think these are desperate times, but I absolutely subscribe to the philosophy that you have to run your business like your platform's on fire. It may be a dramatic statement, but the idea is that none of us can be complacent at any time, in any market. If we're constantly guarding against the enemy of normal business odds, we'll be totally focused on leveraging the best business practices, the most efficient methodologies, and working with our sharpest minds. Think of it as polishing your own brilliance! Dazzling!!
Cheers, from DC...
Jaynee
Sign me up with the rest of the gang! Sounds like a great AR gathering if nothing else!
I don't know Maggie. I honestly don't think that "dancing on the ceiling" is necessary. I have learned to set my boundaries with my clients. Be respectful of them and expect the same respect for me. I update my voicemail daily to say when I will return my calls so that I am not interrupted throughout the day. I set the rules of engagement, if you will, early on in the relationship and explain how I work. I go above and beyond, but will not go crazy in terms of last minute appointments or putting myself in the position of being their puppet. I've done that too often in the past and learned from it.
Having said that, salsa classes sound soooooo much fun! Wish you were here. I'd love to have a friend to take them with. :-)
Maggie, NOPE I think the ceiling is safer. If I ever attempted those Salsa moves I would throw my what-a-ma-giggie out of whack, and be laid up for a week ..... LOL
Yeah...I was hiding out all last weekend. Didn't have much going on but I sure didn't want anything going on my birthday weekend...(I sure haven't had a good time like that in a long time)
Anyway, that was awful you spent your birthday showing property only for them to not return a call or email?
Maggie, I can't speak for real estate but I think in ANY business you have to allow some things to slide but set some limits. People will only treat you the way you allow them to; I had clients calling at 11 at night...and put a stop to that and some other things.
Salsa, huh? I've tried it, you chose one difficult dance but I'm up for it :)!
Maggie,
Just as long as you don't make me tap dance. Seriously, I try to be flexible with my schedule but if I have plans like for my birthday I tell them I already have an appointment at that time. I just don't specify that it is a personal appointment.
Maggie, I hope you had a wonderful birthday anyway!
Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday to you,
Happy birthday dear Maggie,
Happy birthday to you!